A British man hides from police but not on facebook...

Gotta love stupid criminals, check out this article from Gawker.com
Remember how, in Catch Me If You Can, fugitive Leonardo DiCaprio kept calling Detective Tom Hanks to taunt him? Here is a convicted burglar doing the same thing, in real time on Facebook. Should we celebrate or fear him?
Craig 'Lazie' Lynch has been rising to folk hero status after absconding, in early September, from a prison in Suffolk Bay. (England! Which frees us up to celebrate him, because NIMBY.) He's been daring the cops to come find him with defiant photographs, and detailing the corporeal pleasures associated with freedom, ever since:
mmm i just had a 12lb venison steak. Roasted veg and chips, bangin meal.
I feel stuffed but still got room for the j.d's . Hope you enjoyed the meal babe's. We'll have to eat here again. Now to drive home in this shit weather. Hope we make it cos i'm ready to get in bed and un wrap somethin for afters x x.
Craig 'Lazie' Lynch Is thinkin, which lucky girl will be my first of 2010!!

Here's how he celebrated Christmas. The middle finger is blurred because I was forced to rely photographic middlemen, since Lazie hasn't accepted my friend request. (If my friendship is rejected by an escaped convict so indiscriminate as to send Facebook messages to the police, it will truly be a low point in my social networking career.)
YES YES i fuckin made it to Xmas i beat their fuckn system and i love it. I love you all my family my friends my lovers and all my supporters and fans i love the whole lot of you x x your the best merry xmas merry xmas merry xmas ho ho ho.
If any of you was doubtin my freedom. Here's proof. How the fuck could i get my hands on a bird like this in jail. ha ha.
But will Lazie last until 2010? His yuletide updates invited press coverage and a ramped up manhunt, with Facebook disabling various accounts and delivering data to law enforcement. To get around this—and to avoid the "haters and racists" populating his comment sections—Lazie has constructed a Byzantine web of personal profiles and fan pages, each with varying degrees of privacy.* At last count, he had 7300 fans and 1300 friends. He's skittish, too. A recent update read, "Oh No sirens!! Its happening," only to turn into a sigh of relief when the sirens weren't for him. A recent, baleful update reads:
well what can i say fellow friends. The run is nearly over. Sorry some of you had to find out like this. I know some of you might take offence that i never told you personally. But you know me. I Trust No One. Its the only way to be.
If we have learned anything from Hollywood fugitives, it's that the desire for human connection is always what does the lone wolf in—and Facebook udpates count. Lazie, woefully aware of this premise, announces in his bittersweet About Me: "You'll have a laugh with me but it will end in tears. It always does." Just don't pull a gun or anything when they come to get you, because then we'll feel like total jerks for cheering you on.






http://gawker.com/5435993/escaped-inmate-taunts-cops-with-facebook-pictures-and-status-updates

The Invisible Wounds of War

They are called the invisible wounds of war, PTSD and TBI.  Today such conditions are becoming increasingly more common among returning soldiers. 

They are two illnesses, which in the past few years have become a growing concern for both soldiers and caretakers. Joseph Wilson, Veterans Affairs and Rehabilitation Commissioner for the National Headquarters of the American Legion, says there has been an influx of soldiers returning home from combat with Traumatic Brain Injuries (TBI) and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Modern technology is helping keep more soldiers alive than during past wars and Wilson has determined that “it’s only going to increase further.” Now with more soldiers returning home from war than ever before, caretakers and soldiers are left to deal with not only the physical but mental affects of war. But recognizing and treating these conditions is not always an easy task.

Linda Scwhartz, Commissioner of Veterans Affairs for the State of Connecticut, says after Vietnam there was no such thing as PTSD and only in the past two years has the VA begun screening for PTSD and TBI. In Connecticut, Scwhartz says, 19 percent of those who responded to a survey conducted by the VA, said they had been in circumstances where an explosion took place, and reported experiencing blackouts afterward. Additionally 30% of those who took the survey had symptoms of PTSD.

 Returning home from combat is a culture shock, says Cpl. Kostantinos Vathianakis, a Marine Corps Reserve who served in Iraq. “Most don’t realize that military life is a subculture; a very different and life changing one to be exact. Everything is run differently and called differently from the ‘real world.’ ” Vathianakis explains the hardest part about being back home is being a person again and not a Marine.

 A soldier suffering from PTSD may feel irritable, have difficulty concentrating, or feel as though they have no future, says Wilson. A traumatic brain injury can often transition into PTSD, therefore it is critical, explains Wilson that PTSD and TBI be caught early, so they can be treated properly.

 Lance Cpl. Peter J Mangin, a Marine who served in Iraq, echoes a similar sentiment to Vathianakis. Upon his return home from combat, Mangin says he realized a lot had changed since he’d been away. Between his father being gravely ill and the death of one his fellow Marines, who was accidentally shot while cleaning his hunting rifle, it all really began to sink in for Mangin when he returned home. “Here I was thinking the war was over for me because I was home. Meanwhile all too often there is a war awaiting you upon your return home,” says Mangin. Making that switch from Marine to civilian is mentally a difficult adjustment, and simply being around people can be a feat in itself, says Vathianakis.

Wilson says the VA is taking an active stance in treating these illnesses, however due to the similarities in symptoms of both, caretakers have trouble identifying whether a soldier has one or the other. Specifically, there are clinical challenges to treating TBI because symptoms like insomnia, irritability, and change in behavior, which are common for TBI sufferers, are often written off as PTSD. Wilson stresses PTSD and TBI are two very separate issues. TBI is a neurological issue resulting from actual damage to the brain as a result of a blast, whether a human being, automobile-main catalyst, or manhole set it off. PTSD, on the other hand, is a psychological one, caused by experiencing traumatizing situations while in combat. PTSD sufferers are often prone to outbursts, have difficulty concentrating, become anti-social, or worst of all, see no positive future in sight.

Wilson says it is often hard to diagnose TBI, especially mild TBI, which is commonly referred to as a concussion. Wilson explains many soldiers experience mild TBI’s and do not even know it. It is only after they return home that they being experiencing the symptoms discussed above. There is no objective test like an MRI, which would reveal a mild TBI. Simply judging based on common indicators can be difficult, because as Wilson explains, PTSD and TBI have similar warning signs. In order to separate TBI and PTSD sufferers, the VA has begun using screening tools and asks the soldier a series of questions.  Based on the feedback received from the test, caretakers can determine whether or not the veteran has experienced a TBI.

However, Wilson says, many soldiers fear the stigma that will be placed upon them if they admit to having symptoms of PTSD or TBI. If either ailment is affecting them to the point where they cannot perform their duties, they can be put on medical retirement or can’t re-enlist. But if not treated properly, as stated above, TBI can transition into PTSD and thus depression, or long-term brain damage.  Wilson stresses it is critical a TBI be recognized early, because with time and the right treatment, this injury can be overcome. There is not much that can be done to reverse the affects of a TBI, therefore the focus is placed on rehabilitation and preventing any further injury. Otherwise a TBI can cause life-long damage to ones sensory, motor and cognitive learning skills. 

For PTSD sufferers, Wilson says there is no definitive resolve, however there are plenty of treatment options available. The VA works to place soldiers in one on one counseling sessions as well as in group therapy, in order to help them mentally adjust back to civilian life. Mangin says it all has to do with whether the individual is serious or not about seeking help. Mangin believes programs like, “the VA can only do so much for a veteran who can’t admit that they have a problem."

 Luckily, says Wilson, The National Guard, Reserve and the VA are now working in conjunction to help identify those soldiers suffering from either TBI or PTSD. Also the VA and American legion have recently put in place many programs to help ease the worries of PTSD and TBI sufferers. Job Placement programs, suicide prevention and family counseling are just some of the areas of patient care the VA and American legion are working aggressively to improve, says Craig Roberts, head of Media Relations for the American Legion. 

 Vathianakis explains, there are plenty of warrior transition briefs and pamphlets being handed out to help veterans deal with the shock of returning home from war. But he says one of the hardest parts about coming home was being around people who didn’t care or couldn’t understand what he had been through while in Iraq. Mentally, this can become a hard burden for soldiers to bear and Mangin says, it’s important for them to take advantage of the support offered by the armed forces that will help them transfer their minds and bodies from a war zone to a civilian zone. Doing so can help caretakers determine whether a soldier may be suffering from TBI or PTSD.

“With all the stressors building up when I returned home, I was about to have a breakdown,” says Mangin, and that’s when he sought help from the VA. Overall, he says, he is proud to say he has successfully grown from all he had to deal with while overseas, “and upon returning home it has made me the stronger person I am today.”

photo courtesy of APimages.com

 

The Weapon that is our Cellphone

Many of us have been there..texting late night only to regret out actions the next morning. Now there's a website that compiles some of the most hilarious "texts from last." 

Without the context of the conversation included, many of them are ones we can all relate to. Definitely worth checking out. 

A Two Front War

For many soldiers there is a battle awaiting them upon their return home.

Each month 10 thousand young men and women return home from Iraq, Afghanistan and other areas of conflict only to be faced with more hardship. One challenge soldiers face is receiving adequate healthcare upon their return. Many Americans and veterans criticize the government and armed forces for not sufficiently caring for soldiers when they return to the U.S. In March, President Obama considered instituting a law that would bill soldiers private medical insurance to cover medical costs for injuries they sustained in combat. This new piece of legislation would require private medical insurance companies to reimburse the Department of Veterans affairs for the treatment of soldiers injured in combat. The plan was thought up of as a way to generate money for the Department of Veterans Affairs, and was said to save $530 million a year for the Veterans Affairs federal budget. But Veterans Organizations were not in favor of the plan and voiced their concerns that it may affect a veteran’s ability to access healthcare. If this plan was followed through, veterans affairs advocates feared it would drastically higher premiums for veterans and make healthcare very unaffordable for soldiers and their families. Currently the Government covers any medical costs for a soldier related to an injury they received due to military service.

Cpl. Kostantinos Vathianakis, a United States Marine Corps reserve, who served in Iraq calls the plan, “ridiculous.” Vathianakis says, “any injuries occurring on duty are obviously directly related to the mission being followed. Missions are passed down the Chain of Command in direct support of an Operation from the Department of Defense.” Vathianakis believes making the individual soldier cover their own medical costs, “is basically abandoning troops to defend for themselves.”

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Lance Cpl. Peter J Mangin served in Iraq and was outraged upon hearing of this plan. He realizes cut backs need to be made in order to reduce government spending, but servicemen and women should not be the ones paying the price. Mangin says it’s the government’s sole responsibility to take care of returning soldiers. Although the bill has been rescinded, Marines like Mangin took the proposal of the bill as an insult. “Knowing that we are making ultimate sacrifices to greater this country and this is what we get in return?,” says Mangin.

Linda Schwartz (pictured at right), Commissioner of Veterans Affairs for the State of Connecticut, believes once the Obama Administration listened to these concerns, they realized they made a mistake and withdrew the proposed plan. There is some even better news for veterans, assures Schwartz. Obama wants adequate funding for the VA healthcare budget and has a plan to increase the Veterans Affairs healthcare budget by $25 billion. But Schwartz says despite such efforts, the VA has been underfunded for years and many soldiers “fall through the cracks because they don’t know what’s available to them.”

She believes today it’s “a whole new ball game for soldiers coming home from war.” A former military nurse, Schwartz says years ago all of the soldiers returned to the same base, where there was one central hospital, and everything they needed was right there for them. Today, however, things are much different. Schwartz explains the military is now relying so heavily on the National Guard and Reserve that these men and women are returning back into the community where making that transition into civilian life can be difficult and help is needed.


“Civilians can’t fathom what we’ve been through,” says Vathianakis. He agrees overall the help is there for a soldier if needed but far too often tragic cases arise and it’s too late. Vathianakis explains there are standard rehabilitation steps that are taken when leaving Iraq and returning home. Soldiers go through post-deployment checkups, counseling, and are constantly reminded from their chain of command what is out there for them and awaiting them when they return home from combat.

Schwartz says there is plenty available but that doesn’t mean there aren’t flaws in the system. Schwartz says the process of filing a disability claim at the VA can become so stressful that some people joke, “if you didn’t have Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome at the start of it, you will by the end.” Schwartz explains the VA can take anywhere from three to six months to process a disability claim. More alarming is the fact that three to six months is considered good for the VA. But for someone who is sitting at home, injured, unable to work and without any income, it’s not, explains Schwartz.

The far distance from a soldier’s home to a facility, and the possibility of a very long wait to see a doctor easily turns soldiers off from seeking help. "Boy was it a maze to figure out," says Mangin, who sought help from a Veterans Affairs Hospital. "But with help from my command and other Veteran’s going through the same process, I made it out alive so to speak."

While Mangin agrees in some cases the military and the government has failed returning soldiers in rehabilitating them, what it comes down to is “there has to be a valid effort from the veteran as well as the provider.” Some facilities like the VA and outpatient clinics can be large and confusing, says Mangin, and a three-hour wait is standard at many of them. Schwartz says there are plenty of people out there that want to help these brave young men and women, but changes need to continue to be made. Mangin says while there was some confusion and long waits are typical, a little patience can go a long way.

Programs are evolving and now there are many options available to soldiers of which they are not even aware. While a disability claim may take months to process, the VA is more than willing to help a soldier file the paperwork and get them set on the right foot. Some, Schwartz say, think they solely have to do all of the work themselves, but that’s not the case. The VA's job is to make sure they reach out to soldiers who may not even know where to begin.


Vathianakis put it simply, “the bottom line comes down to the individual; first to realize they need the help then go out and get it.” While the process can be long and strenuous, Craig Roberts, head of Media Relations for the American Legion says he believes the current administration is doing a respectable job as far as facilitating returning soldiers from combat. Roberts, like Schwartz, admits there certainly are weaknesses. Suicide prevention and family counseling are two aspects of post rehabilitation care that have been failing, says Roberts, but he assures soldiers they are working aggressively to fill those gaps. In fact, the American Legion and The Department of Veterans Affairs have teamed up to advocate on soldiers’ behalf. Both organizations are working to strengthen job placement programs, business seminars and encourage entrepreneurship. 

Overall Schwartz and Roberts are optimistic about Obama’s new federal funding plan for veterans. They believe he has fulfilled the U.S.’s promise to them, which is to take full responsibility for the care of soldiers who risked their lives for this country. For the most part the same sentiment resonates with veterans like Mangin and Vathianakis. Despite the outrage and insult they felt after hearing of Obama's proposed medical insurance plan they believe a respectable job has been done in helping them both mentally and physically upon their return to the United States. "The Government needs to take full responsibility in covering the costs. It’s not anyone else’s responsibility but their own. They sent us to war therefore they are obligated to have to deal with the repercussions of it," says Mangin. Veterans organizations and soldiers alike can only hope Obama’s new budget plan will do just that.

Learn more of the details of Obama's federal budget plan for the Department of Veterans Affairs 

The First 100 Days

It's been 100 days since Obama took office and newspapers, magazine and television news programs have been giving their opinion of the president's performance thus far. 

Some fellow bloggers at Huffingtonpost.com are sounding off on how they think Obama has fared these past three months. They give their opinion on how he has dealt with the economy, foreign policy, national security, etc. Check out the link below to read on and feel free to comment below and share your thoughts.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/huffingtonpost/obamas-first-100-days-rep_b_192515.html

This College Life

Two College roommates, Adam and Jake, who probably have too much time on their hands, have created a website where they upload weekly videos about well basically nothing. Nevertheless you'll probably find a lot of the stuff they parody are things you encounter on a regular basis at college. It's worth checking out--some of their stuff borderlines on weird but is pretty damn funny. 

This College Life

Ten Steps between you and your Career

How to Get a Job in Ten Simple Steps: 

We have all heard the phrase “In this economy…” which is often followed by a discussion regarding the lack of jobs there currently are around the globe. Such a fact rings especially true for this years graduating college seniors. But if you play your cards right, there is hope. There are many means by which you can help yourself get a job and impress your employer in the process. Read on to find out more. 

1.) Intern: Interning at a company will allow you to gain experience in all different areas of an industry. Most importantly internships can help you decide if your intended career path is the right fit for you. Lemore Hecht, a senior at Quinnipiac University, interned with WOR radio station in New York City this past summer. Hecht says, “an internship is the most valuable experience one can have in terms of getting a job in the future.” You can experience what it is like to be in a real work environment, and learn aspects of a particular industry you would never gain in a classroom. She believes, “not only does it get your foot in the door and gives you the experience of working in the field of your choice, but it also helps you form a network that will help you in the future.” Also having an internship will put you ahead of others applying for a job who have less experience. Hecht says, “the connections that you build are important so that when the time comes around to find a job, you have an "in" with a company. She believes forming such a relationship with professionals in your field of study will only help you when you begin your job search. Most importantly interning during your time in college shows you are ambitious about the field you are trying to break into. Also you will gain useful knowledge about the entire industry, inside and out, as you will have experienced it for yourself first hand.

2.) Network: It seems too good to be true but simply talking to the right person can be the gateway to the job of your dreams. “Networking is how I got my first job,” says Jacqueline Elliot, a Communications Planner at MediaCom, an advertising agency in New York City. Scott Siminsky, the Manager of Sales at ABC and family friend of Elliot’s, had ties with the ad agency she currently works for. He reffered Elliot to three different ad agencies which led to three different interviews. Elliot got offered a position at MediaCom as a Communications Planning Assistant in 2006 and was promoted within six months. As mentioned above, internships can also help form relationships with those in the professional field both within your company and beyond. Making the right impression on someone may prompt them to refer you to your next potential employer. 

3.)  Do Your Research: One of the first steps one should take when preparing for an interview is to research the company. The last thing you want to do is find yourself dumbfounded when an employer mentions something about the company and you have absolutely no idea what he or she is talking about. Knowledge about your company, its partners and competitors will make you stand out from the crowd. It will prove that you are not only interested in working there, but have taken the initiate to stay abreast of the company’s goals, reputation and possible changes they may be making. Researching a company can be done simply by taking a look at the company’s website, annual reports, or even researching them at any good old fashioned library. 

4.) Use the Internet: There are a plethora of websites out there that can help you get your foot in the door, without even getting off your couch. The internet is a great way to make your name and resume easily accessible to companies and employers who may be using the internet as means to find potential candidates. Many job postings are found on websites like Craig’s List, an online classifieds site, with job opportunities listed around the world. Sites like Monster.com and Careerbuilder.com allow you to not only post your resume and look for jobs, but also seek career advice and research various occupations. 

5.) Clean Up Your Act: Facebook and Myspace are tools that allow people to stay in touch and keep track of what your friends, co-workers and family are up to. While sites like these were especially useful during college, however when it comes to finding a job, employers often look to such sites to learn more about their potential employees. Although pictures of you drinking with your friends may seem harmless, it's not particularly the type of image you want to promote of yourself when seeking employment. Elliot says one applicant at her company was turned down for a job after her boss came across her myspace page, which featured the girl in a less than flattering light. Deleting your profile completely is not necessarily being suggested, but limiting what kind of personal information you share with the public should be used with discretion. There are however websites that can be beneficial for you to join when beginning your professional career. See step 6.

6.) Get “Linkedin:” Linkedin is a website that allows you to “get the most from your professional network.” Once you sign up you can search for job opportunities, speak with experts in a particular industry as well as reconnect with colleagues from previous jobs. The site also allows you to make a personal profile which highlights your career goals and experiences. The website states its “mission is to connect the world’s professionals to accelerate their success.” Take a look at the video below to get an insight as to how linkedin can benefit you and your career.        

7.)  Customize your resume: “Gearing your resume towards the field you’re seeking employment in is very important,” says Elliot. Highlighting such qualities will enforce how you are specifically required for a certain position, not just the industry in general. “In my objectives I put pertinent information about the prevalent experiences I had at my past places of employment.” If you are applying for a niche position that requires particular skills, be sure to highlight such attributes you may possess which could be particularly essential for your position. Capitalizing on such special skills you may have could be what ends up setting you apart from another applicant. 

8.) Dress Appropriately: People say looks aren’t everything, but when it comes to job interviews, first impressions are extremely important. How you look when you first greet your potential employer is key. According to About.com, men should dress in a solid colored suit and tie, wear their hair neatly, and limit any distracting jewelry or strong aftershave. Women should also dress in a pants suit, or skirt that is still at a conservative and comfortable length when sitting. Women should especially limit wearing too much perfume or gaudy jewelry and should perhaps just wear simple earrings. Eileen Mancision, a Medical Assistant for Westchester Medical Group in Scarsdale, NY says even if your interview is taking place over the phone you should dress as though you were having a face to face interview. Mancision says doing so will help put you in the right mind set, even if you are only speaking to your interviewer by telephone. Whether you are having an interview in person or not, dressing correctly is highly important; because no matter how qualified you may be your appearance is the first thing your employer will be judging.

9.) Be on time: Getting to your job interview is the hard part, being punctual shouldn’t be. Showing up even just a few minutes late to your interview can make you appear as though you are a tardy or irresponsible employee. Especially, dare I say, in this economy it is crucial to try and do everything possible to give yourself that extra edge. Running late may only add to your anxiety and nerves which will make it harder for you to concentrate at the task at hand: getting a job offer!

      10.) Stay Confident: Now that you have adequately networked to land yourself an interview, researched the company, and deleted any incriminating photos of yourself on facebook, staying confident is a major component when trying to impress your boss during an interview. Prior to your interview you should ask yourself why you want to work for this particular company and how you feel you can be an asset to them. Having a good understanding of such goals will help you to stay on track when answering questions during your interview.  Elliot says, "staying confident and positive is very important." Especially these days with the struggling economy and constant layoffs being made, such attributes will only help you in the long run. Even if you don't get the job you were hoping for the first time around, each experience will only make you stronger, and show you what you need to work on in the future; because the right job for you will come along eventually, but it takes a great deal of hard work and determination to find it

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Marry Rich...

Marry rich and you can live like the women of the "The Real Housewives." Over the past few years, I must admit, this show has become my guilty pleasure. While I'm from NYC I unfortunately can't say I can relate to any of the women on this seasons installment of  Bravo's the Real Desperate Housewives of New York City. One thing I am thankful for is that I don't (or at least I hope, have an accent like Jill Zarin's, one of the members of this season's cast of characters.) I became hooked on the series freshman year when too much caffeine and excess amount of time on my hands allowed me to stay up all night watching a better part of the first season of the show. The first season focused on the women of Orange County who all live in a development of mansions known as Coto de Caza. Some of them work, while others live off their husbands money, either way they are equally wealthy a all lead extravagant lives. 

When they're not gossiping about each other or pretending to be friends they're typically seen dining out, going on vacation and of course relaxing at the spa, because their lives are oh so stressful. The same theme of activites hold true for the women of both coasts. The ladies of NYC can be seen jaunting off to the Hamptons and the women of the OC stay at the most lavish hotels in Las Vegas. 

As I mentioned some of the women married rich which is how they found themselves living the lavish lifestyle they do, while others have made their fortune selling insurance or real estate. What bothers me about these women is they all consider themselves to have 'class' simply because they have money. But the majority of the faux blonde, fake breasted women of the OC all engage in activities that are far from classy and often downright mean. 

On a recent episode of the Real OC Housewives one of the women, Tamra, the self described "hottest housewife," plotted to get one of the other women "naked wasted" (not so sure what that entails). Basically she forced tequila shots down her throat to get her so drunk that she embarrassed herself in front of everyone, many of whom she had just met. Tamra has a personal vendetta against Gretchen, who she fears may take over the reign of "hottest housewife," as she is younger, spunkier and new to the crowd--clearly this is evidence of "classy" behavior. 

Jill of NYC, has an accent something similar to the sounds of a sweet combination of Long Island, the Bronx and straight up loud and obnoxious. Unfortunately on a recent episode she realized how detrimental opening up her big mouth can be in NYC; she bashed one of the other women's husbands and it just so happened to be printed in the NY Post. Nevertheless I still manage to find myself setting my TIVO to tape the ridiculousness of this show each week-whose latest installment included a one year birthday party for one of the women's dogs-which was sadly nicer than my sweet 16. Check out the drama for yourself every Tuesday night at 10 on Bravo.  

photos courtesy of bravotv.com

And I Thought Checking Your Facebook in the Library was Bad...

Anyone with a facebook is aware of the fact that it is customary for users to update their "friends" on the most important aspects of their lives throughout the day. 

This is all done through the use of status updates, a feature on facebook which allows me to keep tabs on pretty much what all my 557 bffs on the book are up to. Now I know when they are hungry, procrastinating studying for a test, going out and getting wasted with their "loves" and the like. Personally I don't need a facebook tab to allow me to express my feelings. Far too often I come across ones that read something along the lines of: "trying to find the meaning of life" or "searching for real love." Like I said in one of my previous posts, facebook has many great tools for keeping in touch with friends, family and acquaintances, but sometimes people go to extremes. This became evident when a man was arrested, yes arrested for stealing a womans laptop to check his facebook account. I guess he couldn't go another second without knowing if someone wrote on his wall, tagged him in a picture or perhaps he simply needed to update his status. Here's more on the story from the Sarasota Herald Tribune:

 BRADENTON, Fla. — Sheriff's officers said a 19-year-old man snatched a Starbucks customers laptop after being told he could not use it to check his Facebook account. According to officers, the man then grabbed the customer's laptop and ran out of the coffee shop, located in an outlet mall.

Two people in the parking lot tackled the man and held him there until a mall security guard arrived.

The victim got his laptop back and the man was charged Saturday with robbery by sudden snatching, a felony.

information from Sarasota Herald Tribune

That Was Awkward

We've all been there; situations that are just plain awkward. Personally I've found myself in quite a bit and I'm sure you all have too. This hip-hop parody pays tribute to some of life's most uncomfortable moments...enjoy!

Q+A: Chris Davitt Tell Us Why Life After College is Worth Living

You’ve heard from seniors form universities around the country who are quickly approaching the end of an era: college. But what’s life really going to be like post-May? Will naps still exist? Is having fun even allowed? Is life even worth living? Chris Davitt, a 2008 graduate of Keene State in New Hampshire sheds some light on what it’s really like out there in the “real world.”  

Q: What do you miss most about college?

A: I miss not being able to wear sweatpants everyday. I miss the food from the dining commons. I miss door tags. I miss being able to drink at 2 in the afternoon and not having someone judge me. I miss watching people try to text in class in their ugg boots. I miss getting frustrated going to work to lifeguard at the campus pool for three hours because I knew I was missing happy hour.

Q: How did you go about finding your first job? Was it a difficult process?

A: I had a hard time finding a job at first. I was looking for a teaching position and a lot of schools were looking for somebody who had their masters. I sent out forty applications and went on about five interviews. I was only offered one job. However, I am very happy where I am now.

Q: On a daily basis how is your routine different from how you spent your time in college?

A: My routine is mostly the same. I work for seven hours until the late afternoon. I come home, do some work, eat dinner and watch T.V. It’s very similar to going to class, doing homework, and just hanging out at night. 

Q: Did you have many college loans to pay off after graduating? If so how have you been managing your money in order to do so?

A: Yes I have about $20,000 in student loans to pay off. I have been trying to save so I set up a separate bank where I put money that will eventually help me pay off my loans.

Q: Do you feel you have less free time to socialize with friends? 

A: Not really. The main thing that has  changed is I have more responsibilities now.

Q: Were you forced to move home after college in order to save money

A: No I was lucky enough to move out on my own right after college and I am glad that I did so. I think it could be very difficult adjustment if you move home right after leaving college. I still have my independence that I had while I was in college. 

Q: You're college buddies referred to you as "Big C" during your time at Keene; Is such a nickname still appropriate at the middle school you now teach in?

A: Luckily they don't know about the nickname. I do however reference stories from my college days, but I leave out the stories that involve drinking. I try to maintain an image of a real person, but I also try to stay professional.

 Q: As a young teacher did you find it hard to gain the respect of your older co-workers/your students right after college?

A: Yes at 23, I definitely feel young at times. However, I try to keep the mood light and I feel like people enjoy that kind of attitude

Q: Is it hard keeping in touch with your friends from college now that you have jobs, significant others and more responsibilities?

A: I consider myself lucky most of my friends from college live close by. Some of them are working and others go to school and are finishing up their degrees. I see at least one of my friends almost every weekend.

Q: Do you feel you’ve changed at all since graduating?

A: For the most part, not really. The only thing that has definitely changed is I have more responsibilities now.

Q: What kind of responsibilities do you have now that you didn't have in college? 

A: These days I have to worry about paying bills on time, and even worse having to cook for myself.

Q: If you could go back and do college all over again, would you?

A: Absolutely I would, but I do not think I would change much. The only thing I would do differently is study harder my Freshman year.

Q: In order to give some hope to all our graduating seniors out there, what are some benefits of living on your own, working, etc?

A: I think the "real world" is very similar to college life actually. The only suggestion I would have is make sure you stay organized. The last months of college can be very stressful, but it’ s important to remember to have fun and enjoy your last few months. 

He was known as "Big C," back in college, but is now more commonly referred to as Mr. Davitt by his students. He spends his days teaching, cooking his own meals, and relaxing at night. He is also lucky enough to have moved out right after graduation and in turn has been able to maintain the independence he became accustomed to during his time at Keene. While he no longer has his meals cooked by the staff in the dining commons, or can get away with wearing sweatpants on a daily basis, Davitt explains life after college, isn't so bad after all. He says his life now isn't all that different than it was this time last year. He now has a place of his own, money to spend, and still spends time with his friends; now that doesn't seem so bad, does it?  

The College Humor Show

For four college students the idea for a website consisting of jokes, and funny photos, began innocently as a way to get beer money during college. But Collegehumor.com, according to The New Yorker, is now home to eight million users a month. The website includes anything from hysterical home videos, to a "stupid question hall of fame" and even humourous essays written by College Humor's own staff. And now nine editorial staff members at the website, thanks to MTV, are starring in a scripted half hour comedy depicting the daily happenings at the office, where being funny is pretty much their job. 

The CollegeHumor Show - MTV Shows

I suggest checking it out. The show airs every Sunday at 9:30 on MTV. If only we could all get sweet jobs working at a website like this after college...

People Who Deserve it

 

Are there people you come across on a daily

basis who just plain tick you off. Often these

people's habit's have become so routine 

to them that they don't even realize how God damn annoying their mere presence truly is.  Perhaps you live with Mr. Doesn't refill the ice tray, work along side cubicle phone screamer, or maybe you even are the resolution gym hogger 

The blog "People Who Deserve it" call out those gems who wear jeans to the gym (why?),  "indescretely" pick their nose, or people who just plain creep you out like Ronald McDonald. I've listed my top five favorite offenders who I am sure you have come across during your lifetime. If any people in particular seem as though they go out of their way to ruin your day, then feel free to leave a comment:

1.) Bad breath boss:

Here at PWDI, we believe in hygiene and not much else.  So when a particular douche-nozzle fucks with the one thing we hold dear, it’s a fair bet we’re going to call that bastard out. Big time.

Bad Breath Boss, guess what? It’s your turn. We’ve had just about enough of your condescending pep talks and rampant halitosis. If we wanted to smell like an onion bagel and feel bad about ourselves we’d shower at H&H.

Please in the name of baby Jesus, brush your teeth, chew some gum, have a mint, maybe see a specialist, because when you talk it smells like the plague, and we’re not allowed to bring a SARS mask to work.

And if you continue to violate our nostrils with the smell of hot trash, we’ll have no choice but to rip that DeVry diploma off your wall and shove it down your stink hole. You’ve been warned.

2.) Don't disturb waiter:

Last time we checked, a waiter’s job was to wait on the people. A modern day servant if you will. A modern day servant making more tips than we’re making writing this stupid blog, or pretending to work while we watch cat videos on Youtube.

But some of these skivvies just don’t get the point. Like they’re doing you a favor by bringing your food - plopping it on the table like gruel in an orphanage. You’re missing a fork and there’s a toenail in your risotto? Well too bad sucka, ’cause your waiter’s too busy doing lines in the bathroom and looking pensive by the bar.

Next time you have to deal with this menial serf, go ahead and read him the daily specials: bangers and mash with a side of black eye.

3. Resolution gym hogger:

Ahhh, new year, new crop of hackneyed gym goers. You know the ones. They eat 79 donuts during the holidays in anticipation of fulfilling their new year’s resolution. “This year, Will be the year.” Um, pardon our pessimism, but no, it won’t. Don’t get us wrong, we’re big proponents of getting into shape (we need to keep our stamina up in order to outrun angry mobs). You, however, will join our gym and hog our machines for the first 2 months, until you realize the treadmill is equally as horrible as it was last year, and your Tivo’s getting way too full on this new “workout regime.”

Allow us to shorten the process by offering you this exclusive one-day-only registration special. You pay nothing, and we make the thought of the gym so painful, you stay home and cry off those extra pounds.

4. Passive agressive emoticon user: 

Sorry team, you’ll be working late again tonight  Looks like we’re gonna have to let you go Oops, I ran over your cat  Do any of these statements make you feel good? No. So why then, does Passive Aggressive Emoticon User feel the need to end each thought with a rage inducing smiley-face. Or worse, a wink?We’ll tell you why. Because she’s a horrible bitch who takes pleasure in other people’s misery. Should you have your very own PAEU, remind her that projecting her pathological disorder on others is unacceptable by replying to her next email with your own emoticon. What’s the symbol for broken face again?

5. Dude who takes monopoly way too seriously:

When it comes to board games, some friendly competition goes a long way. Keeps things interesting.

But, then there are those who treat every game like a death-match with Dolph Lundgren, turning an exciting game of chance into the most excruciating three hours of your life.

It’s times like these when you need to step back, take a deep breath, and remind “Dude Who Takes Monopoly Way Too Seriously” to chillax.

After all, it’s a game involving fake money, plastic properties and a petite chienne. It’s not the end of the world if you don’t land on Pennsylvania Avenue.

So instead of going all Gary Coleman, threatening  to not participate if you don’t get to play banker, how about you pull up your diapers, temper that tantrum and roll the dice. Don’t make us crack open your community chest.